Soul Mates

  

Thanks go to a new friend and reader of TRANSITIONS for asking me to talk a bit about Soul Mates.

We’ve all heard the term Soul Mates before and many people believe that that term applies only to romantic (and usually opposite sex) type relationship. Over the years this basic belief was expanded to incorporate other very important people in our lives; people like best friends, siblings, and even enemies or nasty and unpleasant people who came into our lives for a relatively short period of time but provide much hard and/or painful learning’s for us.

I was terribly glad when I heard that the term Soul Mates had been allowed to expand to take in other people and relationships than just romantic ones! I never believed that our other half, our missing externalized other half was wandering the planet somewhere and we could only hope that this mysterious Prince/Princess Charming would stumble into our lives some day. That whole belief system was terribly repelling to me. I always believed that if, IF we each were missing some other part or aspect of ourselves, then it was exactly that…another aspect of US. Not another person, but another aspect of the overall “me” or “you”. That’s what I always sensed  Soul Mates where.

Example: Think of some dearly beloved nonphysical “guide” or teacher or Lightbeing that you personally know. Think of how much you love him/her/it/them, think of how much you respect and trust him/her/it/them. In many cases those nonphysical “guides”, teachers, helpers, or Lightbeings, ETs etc., are other aspects of YOU that exist elsewhere. To me, they are your current self’s Soul Mates in the very deepest sense.

Now with us rapidly evolving, ascending beyond lower polarity into Triality consciousness, the term of Soul Mate will most likely change even more because we’re changing. Now our Soul Mate could be our increasing ability to be consciously aware of and interact with our Higher Selves. Now how’s that for a Soul Mate?!    

Denise